In a recent viral Twitter thread, a man has shared his personal challenges regarding his marriage, leading to an open and candid conversation online. The man revealed that he has engaged in an extramarital relationship due to the lack of intimacy within his marriage, particularly in the bedroom.
He explained that his wife has been consistently reluctant to engage in sexual activity, citing various reasons for their abstinence. Their last child was born three years ago, after which his wife insisted on using protection to prevent unwanted pregnancies. However, she has adamantly refused to consider family planning as a viable alternative.
The man’s situation is further complicated by his work, which requires him to live in Lagos while his family resides elsewhere. Due to the distance and his wife’s reservations about physical intimacy, the man confessed to seeking solace in the arms of another woman in Lagos.
His candid admission was accompanied by the statement, “I no longer ask her again since I have another person taking care of me in my location.” The man chose to remain anonymous but shared his story with @wizarab, who posted it on Twitter.
This heartfelt revelation has sparked a broader conversation about the complexities of relationships, communication, and the challenges that individuals face in maintaining marital bonds.